Saturday, June 2, 2012

Moose Jaw Times-Herald: Lisa's Corner: Being there for one another is the best way to cope with death

By Lisa Goudy

Death is a curious paradox for most people. We all experience death at some point. While many people typically fear death, it’s also something we’re fascinated with because it’s the unknown. With the Saskatchewan Hospice Palliative Care conference taking place since Wednesday, the topic has certainly been on my mind.

But I don’t think we have to be health care professionals or work in a profession that deals with death to be there for someone in mourning, including ourselves. From the point of view of someone who isn’t an expert by any means on the subject, I think our experiences are our best guide to how to cope with loss.

Moose Jaw Times-Herald: Helping people find meaning in a time of death

By Lisa Goudy

David Kessler speaks at the Saskatchewan Hospice Palliative Care Provincial Conference on Thursday. Times-Herald photo by Lisa Goudy
David Kessler believes in people-centred care when caring for people on their deathbeds.

“We can’t take away the pain of death, but we can help people find a little more meaning in those tough, tough days of their life,” said Kessler, a leading expert on death and grief from Los Angeles and the founder of www.Grief.com. “It’s important to tell families and loved ones what they’re going to experience when they’re at the end of their life so that they’re prepared and realizing that what they’re feeling is normal and that they’re going to be loved and taken care of during that time of life.”

Thursday, May 31, 2012

Moose Jaw Times-Herald: Palliative Care Conference kicks off

Participants learn the intricacies in making people comfortable in their final days




Mike Harlos (right) speaks about considerations for clinical care at the Saskatchewan Hospice Palliative Care provincial conference at the Heritage Inn. Fellow speaker Fred Nelson (left) sits by before he speaks to the participants as well. Times-Herald photo by Lisa Goudy






By Lisa Goudy

Communication skills, consideration for clinical care and psychosocial support in the final days is important for professionals to learn more about.

“When most people think about — as physicians or nurses or other clinicians — helping someone at the end of life, my experience is the two things that are most intimidating to that doctor, for example, are the medications that we use, do I know the drugs and even more intimidating, what do I say?” said Mike Harlos, medical director of adult and pediatric palliative care for the Winnipeg Regional Health Authority and professor and section head of palliative medicine at the University of Manitoba.


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Sylvia Keall, local conference chairperson: “The goal is to increase people’s knowledge and awareness of palliative care, of what the needs are for people who are dying, what the most cutting edge medications and symptom control is all about,” said Keall. “It’s also about helping people with the spiritual aspects and the psychosocial, the emotional because when an individual’s dying it’s not just about physical comfort. It’s more than that. And the goal is always to try and get the body comfortable enough so that that person can then deal with any other things in their life that they would like to put some closure to perhaps before they actually die.”
 

Fred Nelson, psychosocial program specialist with the Palliative Care Program with the Winnipeg Regional Health Authority: “I think we still are a death denying society and I think the whole area of hospice and palliative care has been a developing field over the years. I think that we’re much better at helping people living more comfortable and to live their life as much as they can until they do die and I think anything that’s going to help people think about things and have some more ideas and develop their skills in doing that is a good thing," said Nelson.


"I hope they take away some opportunity to reflect on their own work and an opportunity to think about if anything we said kind hat resonated with them that makes some sense in terms of ‘Oh, I never thought of that’ or ‘Oh, I’d like to try and do that,'" said Nelson.

Mike Harlos: “As physicians and nurses, you don’t get training necessarily in the right thing to say so we rely on the same thing everybody else does, which is what’s your life experience, how did your family talk about death and dying and what have you seen and to be honest, most of our life experiences are pretty empty when it comes to talking about death and dying. It’s not your typical dinner table conversation or party conversation,” said Mike Harlos.

Moose Jaw Times-Herald: Service Canada Centre for Youth goes online only

By Lisa Goudy

The Service Canada Centre for Youth will be completely online this year.

“Over the years, there’s been a number of students using the Service Canada Centres for Youth,” said Ray Boughen, member of parliament for Palliser. “That’s decreased over the past few years just because more information is available on computers … The computer’s taken over.”



All job postings and other information for student employment can be found online at youth.gc.ca. 

Moose Jaw Times-Herald: SIAST and U of R will offer face-to-face classes

By Lisa Goudy

Starting this fall, teachers from the University of Regina will be coming down to teach a few face-to-face classes.

In a partnership with the SIAST Palliser campus in Moose Jaw, professors from the U of R will come to SIAST in Moose Jaw to teach classes.


For more information about classes and programs, visit www.uregina.ca/cce.

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Moose Jaw Times-Herald: Struggling to live with a terminal illness

By Lisa Goudy

Kayla McCurdy, 24, has struggled to live from day to day ever since she was diagnosed with a terminal illness.

“We help her as much as we possibly can,” said McCurdy’s mother-in-law Cheryl Hetherington. “She struggles ... she’s a real trooper though.”


Additional information

Tickets for the dessert theatre at Mortlach Hall are $18 each and it starts at 6:30 p.m. for people to get dessert. The play starts at 7 p.m. Tickets can be purchased by calling Hetherington at 690-4788 or her brother Ian at 681-7772. 

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Moose Jaw Times-Herald: Grade 8 students skype with 'The Bite of the Mango' authors

By Lisa Goudy


King George Elementary School students Chloe Peterson (left), Max Pilsworth and Britnee Dunlop were among the students who skyped with the authors of the memoir, The Bite of the Mango. Times-Herald photo by Lisa Goudy
Reading about someone whose hands were cut off and seeing that same person are two very different things.     
      
“She loses her hands in the book and stuff and has to try and learn how to use new hands,” said King George Elementary School Grade 8 student Max Pilsworth. “It was pretty cool seeing her using her phone and her laptop and stuff with just her arms and no hands.”


Grade 8 students skype the authors of 'The Bite of the Mango.' Photo courtesy Dana Ansell, Prairie South School Division
Pilsworth was one of nine students who used Skype to talk with Mariatu Kamara and Susan McClelland on Friday, authors of the bookThe Bite of the Mango. The book is Kamara’s first hand account of what happened to her growing up in Sierra Leone.


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Grade 8 students speak with Mariatu Kamara via Skype. Photo courtesy Dana Ansell, PSSD




Additional, full comment from Lynn Kirk, student support teacher at King George Elementary School


Photo courtesy Dana Ansell, PSSD
“She writes really well as far as its not disgustingly graphic, but it is disturbing because of the situation so I wouldn’t suggest it for kids under Grade 8 unless they’re very very mature readers, but above grade 8 everybody should be reading this book and I mean right up to 95. 

"It really is that important that we didn’t know this was going on and I was raising my kids at the time and I didn’t know this was going on in Africa. It’s digusting. It’s sad," said Kirk.